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This post isn't a question. I just wanted to share how I was feeling. Feel free to share any thoughts, tips, or experience. Just be nice please.
I haven't made a decision, but I am highly considering leaving the hobby. I just can't take the non-stop health issues and deaths I have had. Over the last two years, I have lost probably 10 fish from my community tank. Six of them were all related and all died of the same condition, that no one on here has ever been able to name. It appears to be genetic. I then had another fish die from a mouth tumor, and then I had two females die from breeding exhaustion. These were all fish from a local pet store. I then bought fish from a quality online company. These fish have always been healthier and more beautiful. Many of these fish were the same species as the ones I lost from the pet store. However, after euthanizing two fish tonight, I noticed one of my better fish has cotton around it's mouth.
I'm tired. I've always researched a lot. My parameters are proper for my my fish, and they are stable. My fish have never, under my care, experienced ammonia or nitrites. The nitrates are usually between 10-20ppm max. Stable temperature. The tank is moderately planted. There is lots of Driftwood and rocks for hiding also. I always buy small fish for large tanks because I believe they deserve room. So think nano fish in a 55g. I feed a varied diet of quality foods, including some frozen. I do large water changes weekly.
I honestly just don't know if I want to be in this hobby anymore. I'm tired of sick fish. I'm tired of euthanizing to end suffering and to prevent the potential spread of disease. I can't take knowing all these fish are dying under my care. I hate to get rid of it because I feel like it's so good for my children and I to be exposed to nature and to learn to research and care for amazing living creatures. But honestly, the pain is getting too much. I'm considering rehoming everyone. It bothers me because I know not everyone takes the time to research like I do, but I also know I'm apparently not doing a great job.
Sincerely, a tired and hurt fish keeper.
I haven't made a decision, but I am highly considering leaving the hobby. I just can't take the non-stop health issues and deaths I have had. Over the last two years, I have lost probably 10 fish from my community tank. Six of them were all related and all died of the same condition, that no one on here has ever been able to name. It appears to be genetic. I then had another fish die from a mouth tumor, and then I had two females die from breeding exhaustion. These were all fish from a local pet store. I then bought fish from a quality online company. These fish have always been healthier and more beautiful. Many of these fish were the same species as the ones I lost from the pet store. However, after euthanizing two fish tonight, I noticed one of my better fish has cotton around it's mouth.
I'm tired. I've always researched a lot. My parameters are proper for my my fish, and they are stable. My fish have never, under my care, experienced ammonia or nitrites. The nitrates are usually between 10-20ppm max. Stable temperature. The tank is moderately planted. There is lots of Driftwood and rocks for hiding also. I always buy small fish for large tanks because I believe they deserve room. So think nano fish in a 55g. I feed a varied diet of quality foods, including some frozen. I do large water changes weekly.
I honestly just don't know if I want to be in this hobby anymore. I'm tired of sick fish. I'm tired of euthanizing to end suffering and to prevent the potential spread of disease. I can't take knowing all these fish are dying under my care. I hate to get rid of it because I feel like it's so good for my children and I to be exposed to nature and to learn to research and care for amazing living creatures. But honestly, the pain is getting too much. I'm considering rehoming everyone. It bothers me because I know not everyone takes the time to research like I do, but I also know I'm apparently not doing a great job.
Sincerely, a tired and hurt fish keeper.

