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Thank you! I am so glad you are enjoying my stories!This is a fabulous read, one of the best journals I’ve read in a very long time...I’m hooked!
Looking forward to the next instalment![]()
I promise you that there isn't a fishkeeper who hasn't had fish die on him/her. Fish will die and that is the sad thing. Keep doing what you were, do more research, trust god and I am sure things will go fine.Brief Departure from our Regularly Scheduled Program
So, I need to stop and take a break in my fishkeeping story. I’ll write about my danios in the next couple days, but I just really need to be honest with where I am at. I'm feeling pretty discouraged. The past week has been pretty tough. I lost two fish, both cories. I am really starting to regret this 20-gallon tank. I know it’ll be great in the long run, and my fish needed more space, but I am just feeling really discouraged. I keep making water changes, and I feel like I am doing everything I can.
I lost Cory and one my new peppered cories, Cayenne. I am feeling really bummed and are having some regrets. My husband is away at army training, so I don’t have him to tell me everything is okay. I was hoping my fish would help me cope, but I just feel like I am failing fish. In my head, I know I am doing what I can, but losing my cories this week really sucked.
I am starting to question and rethink everything I am doing. I am so attached to my fish. I hate feeling like I am hurting them. I miss my hubby, and things just don’t seem to be going well in my tank. I am just feeling really down. I love this hobby and my fish, but it’s been hard the last couple days.
Thank you! I am so glad you are enjoying my stories!
Thank you!I promise you that there isn't a fishkeeper who hasn't had fish die on him/her. Fish will die and that is the sad thing. Keep doing what you were, do more research, trust god and I am sure things will go fine.
Fish stores are so much fun!! And so much trouble.. either because i spend lots of money there or because i get new ideas on how to spend lots of money there!Exploring the Benefits of a Local Fish Shoppe
I went to Petsmart to pick up supplies and food after work one day. While I was browsing the aisle, a girl came up to me and asked me if I’d used API Quick Start. This began an amazing conversation about our tanks and fish. I had so much fun talking to this random stranger and hearing about her experiences. Fish people are the friendliest!
During this conversation, she mentioned The Tropical Fish Shoppe, a local place. I had no idea Fargo had any mom and pop fish shops. I live in the largest city in North Dakota, Fargo, but being the largest city in North Dakota doesn’t mean a lot. Fargo has about 250,000 people, so I was so excited that our community had a local place to shop. I never expected it.
So, my mom, Jo, and I all went off to check out the shoppe a few days later. The Tropical Shoppe is situated in a more industrial area of Fargo. It’s tucked away between two auto shops. It’s unassuming store front hides the jewel that lies beneath.
As we walked in, I was overwhelmed by their large tanks filled with plants. There were so many different varieties. They were so bright, vibrant, and healthy. I couldn’t believe how many choices I had. I couldn’t wait to explore more. I browsed the aisles and admired some lovely driftwood pieces. It gave me all kinds of ideas.
The front of the shop was great, but the real treat was in hidden in the fish room. Their tanks were immaculate. Full of fun and unique fish. I saw my first dwarf pea puffer there. It was so cute! It lolled around the tank. It was such a laid-back fish. But I was not ready for a more difficult fish, so I simply admired from afar. Their algae eaters and plecos were incredible. Their tanks were densely green, and the little guys were all munching away. I was so excited to see such a wide variety of algae eaters.
Then I spotted the cory tank. They had a whole tank full of adorable peppered cories. I fell in love, and my mom offered to buy me a few. So, I got four peppered cories: Cardamon, Caraway, Clove, and Cayenne.
They are my sweet, little spice rack, and they made my tank more-lively. They energized all the other fish. How could I not fall head over heels for them? My cories all bring me so much joy, but these guys are the sweetest. I love watching them glass surf together and seeing them cuddle up. Every fish has its own unique personality, and it’s so fun to get to know them. My little spices have become the spice of my life.
Next time…an update on Flora and why she’s a beast!
Thanks for reading!
As long as you get two more peppered cories, you are goldenExploring the Benefits of a Local Fish Shoppe
I went to Petsmart to pick up supplies and food after work one day. While I was browsing the aisle, a girl came up to me and asked me if I’d used API Quick Start. This began an amazing conversation about our tanks and fish. I had so much fun talking to this random stranger and hearing about her experiences. Fish people are the friendliest!
During this conversation, she mentioned The Tropical Fish Shoppe, a local place. I had no idea Fargo had any mom and pop fish shops. I live in the largest city in North Dakota, Fargo, but being the largest city in North Dakota doesn’t mean a lot. Fargo has about 250,000 people, so I was so excited that our community had a local place to shop. I never expected it.
So, my mom, Jo, and I all went off to check out the shoppe a few days later. The Tropical Shoppe is situated in a more industrial area of Fargo. It’s tucked away between two auto shops. It’s unassuming store front hides the jewel that lies beneath.
As we walked in, I was overwhelmed by their large tanks filled with plants. There were so many different varieties. They were so bright, vibrant, and healthy. I couldn’t believe how many choices I had. I couldn’t wait to explore more. I browsed the aisles and admired some lovely driftwood pieces. It gave me all kinds of ideas.
The front of the shop was great, but the real treat was in hidden in the fish room. Their tanks were immaculate. Full of fun and unique fish. I saw my first dwarf pea puffer there. It was so cute! It lolled around the tank. It was such a laid-back fish. But I was not ready for a more difficult fish, so I simply admired from afar. Their algae eaters and plecos were incredible. Their tanks were densely green, and the little guys were all munching away. I was so excited to see such a wide variety of algae eaters.
Then I spotted the cory tank. They had a whole tank full of adorable peppered cories. I fell in love, and my mom offered to buy me a few. So, I got four peppered cories: Cardamon, Caraway, Clove, and Cayenne.
They are my sweet, little spice rack, and they made my tank more-lively. They energized all the other fish. How could I not fall head over heels for them? My cories all bring me so much joy, but these guys are the sweetest. I love watching them glass surf together and seeing them cuddle up. Every fish has its own unique personality, and it’s so fun to get to know them. My little spices have become the spice of my life.
Next time…an update on Flora and why she’s a beast!
Thanks for reading!
Next time…my adventures in aquascaping!
Thanks so much! I love my fishies! I'm so glad you guys enjoy their adventures too.OMG I love your stories! I think everyone who has read them loves little Aurora, Flora and the others as much as you!![]()
Im so glad everything is chill and going well.Betta Luck Next Time!
Life has been pretty boring on the fish front in the best way. The girls have been doing great. No deaths, no illnesses, no drama. So, there haven’t been many stories. But we have been doing a little training. However, it was not been as fruitful as I’d hoped.
A few months ago, I saw videos of the Betta Olympics that took place during the heart of the pandemic. It inspired me. I wanted to teach my girls some new tricks. I figured it’d be a fun addition to my fishkeeping experience and a great way to get closer to my fish. I had high hopes, since I do believe my girls to be intellectuals. But I may have been blinded by motherly love.
I started out by buying a wheel of treats: blood worms, mysis, and daphnia. I wanted to make sure that there would be a fun reward for the girls if they followed the red spoon. We were starting very, very small. My goal was to have the girls follow my spoon, and then we’d move on to other tricks.
So, I settled in one Saturday and began working with Flora. I hovered the red spoon full of yummy snacks on top of the water. I waited excitedly for her to begin chasing after her treats. However, nothing happened. Flora ignored me. She continued to chase her reflection in the side of the tank. She wouldn’t tear herself away even for the food. I was shocked. So, I began moving the spoon directly over her. Nothing. I even dipped the spoon down deeper into the water, but nothing could draw her away. Her self-absorption knows no bounds. So after a few hours, I gave up and decided to try to play with Aurora.
Aurora’s infectious curiosity and enthusiasm abounded. When I approached her tank, she swam right over to greet me. She wiggled herself excitedly. I placed the empty red spoon on the top of the water. She instantly swam toward it, and in her infinite boldness, she tried to take a large bite. I laughed. My fish could not be more different. Aurora didn’t even need the food to motivate her. She just wanted to explore and learn. We spent a lot of time playing. It’s funny how much my fish’s company soothes me. It was a lovely afternoon of goofing around with Aurora, swirling my little red spoon as she wriggled after it in delight. She reminds me so much of a little dog sometimes.
While I have not trained my girls much since then, I love playing with them and seeing their unique and different personalities. My fish are so different, yet they’re both so fun in their own ways. Flora may be more aloof, but she just enjoys her space. She marches to the beat of her own drum, taking orders from no one. Aurora is curious and fearless! She wants to learn and experience new things every day.
As I said before, things have been very chill here. No drama = no stories. So, this is probably my last story for a while, but when I have more, I will share it. Thanks for reading this journal and giving me feedback on my writing. It’s been so fun and so encouraging. Also thank you for the amazing advice and for teaching me so much.