tinylostwine lovely to see you again!
It leans to hard, I still don't have specific
PH/
KH numbers yet, topiramate brain.
So, my situation is that I've got the chance to get two larger tanks for the first time in my fishkeeping career, a 100x50x50cm, like 40x20x20", like 70 gal and a 120x50x50cm, like 48x20x20", which is like 83 gal.
I've been thinking of stocking for both of them, currently maybe an Africanish tank for the larger (
congo tetras,
african butterfly cichlids, african
butterfly fish, synos, armoured fan shrimp, MAYBE a blockhead cichlid, idk) and something peacful around
pearl gouramis for the top one - they're both at the foot of my bed, where I spend a lot of time because I get migraines, and I wanted something soothing to look at while I lie dying in the dark
Because I have a lot of time on my hands I spent a lot of time making stocking lists for the tanks I have for future stocking, noting fish I'd like to keep in future and designing stocking lists I'd like to keep.
The largest tank I've had in the past was a 46 gal bowfront, so it occurred to me that I could start maybe looking at larger cichlids
I've never really been into the idea of, eg, the large
african cichlid tanks, always preferred planted community tanks and I've always been more into nano fish. So the cichlids I've been looking at have been not so much the dwarf cichlids (
rams, apistos, etc), but more the smaller cichlids, keyholes, nannacara, that sort, the kind you can keep as a 'centrepiece' fish in a community.
So off I went, looking to see if there were anymore solo cichlids you could keep in a
planted tank in a community in larger tanks that I hadn't heard of, but also to see if there were maybe angelfish substitutes, like a pearl
gourami alternative, and I was intrigued by the festivum/flag cichlid, but they're a bit too much like angels, I think?
IDK, from those two paths I ended up looking at the kind of cichlids that are being kept in like 55 to 120+ gal tanks and this was mostly on YT because I just browse around on that.
I'd find fish that grabbed my interest (to give me points to actually start research on) and some of those videos led me to ask how accurate PrimeTimeAquatics info was because that channel (and CichlidBros actually) sparked off some interest in terms of 'oh, they suggest that I could keep X fish that looks kinda interesting in the size of tank I have now', but then my research gave conflicting answers on the best tank size.
This happened with the geos tapajos specifically, which I now think are just not going to work in my 83 gal. I know they're susceptible to
HITH too, and I'm really worried about putting them under the stress of a too-small tank and causing that, because I won't be able to handle the guilt.
To answer you specifically (I'm so sorry, that was a ramble) it's much easier for me to handle fish that need neutral to hard water than very soft water - I can set up a tank that's very very soft at first, but keeping it soft is, I think, too much hard work for me anymore.
I've actually kept neolamprologus brevis in the past! I've moved since then, but I have a tank waiting with a lot of shells to be set up for neo similis or multis.
Lol, that's the kind of information I need. I think I'm in a weird space where I know how to maintain a tank, but I'm still very much a noob when it comes to cichlids specifically. I'd PREFER to stay away from sensitive fish, but not because I'm scared of issues, only because I like a buffer due to being disabled.
I can't imagine what your fish room looks like, it must be amazing. One of my stocking ideas for one of my 'big' tanks is just a whole load of
ember tetras and a little flock of
honey gouramis, maybe some habrosus
cories at the bottom, with some red whiptail cats.
I think what I'd like to see keeping larger cichlids is slightly different to what I'm seeing in YT too - I'd like to keep fish in the tank to the same country, at least, if I can, though I'm not precious about that if I have to branch out.
I'd prefer having one/a small group of the larger than some dithers/a shoal or school of slightly smaller fish, but because I'm still very early into my research on this I don't know if that's even possible. I like a planted tank, but I know a lot of these guys like to dig, so I'm trying to consider ways to make the tank look planted without actually being planted, and still using as many real plants as possible - so using a lot of epiphytes, plants in vessels surrounded by rocks in the
sand, etc, if that'd even work.
And I don't know if the reason I don't see that kind of tank with these kind of fish around is because people have tried and it just hasn't worked, or if people who keep these larger fish just prefer the look of a handful of huge fish together in a tank, or if that's just the most successful way to keep these guys and I'm just setting myself up for failure.
Plus the fact that when you move into the world of these larger type fish, my tanks aren't actually that big, so I'm working on a smaller scale, I just don't have the scope for a 125 gal, etc.
I am SO sorry for the huge essay
Thank you so much for taking the time to reply, it was really interesting and very helpful!
I was taken to the LFS yesterday and I saw some of the fish I've been looking at lately in the scale, including a tiny little firemouth, it was awesome

I don't go out a lot, maybe once a month if that, and to the LFS even less than that, so it was particularly awesome.
Got some chilli rasbora to bump up my little school, they've been really hard to get here lately for some reason, and some really nice pieces of
spiderwood. Wanna try and redo some scaping.
But it was so cool to see the firemouth in person, and some ellioti cichlids that were gorgeous even at a couple inches long!
A201 aha, you have discovered my plot! I checked out sympatric (is that right?) species, and I've always liked a good swordtail. The wild ones? Gorgeous. I think that "green" colour would be a nice match for the Firemouth's slate grey top colour.
tinylostwine Yeah, I was considering the wild types or at least the variants closer to wild.
TClare I saw that rainbow cichlids are sympatric (I googled it, that's right, lol) with platies, and they look kind of cool together, the yellowish rainbows and yellowish platies, really satisfying to see, and now I've got another stocking idea.
Yeah, I think I'd grow out the swordtails, maybe get some breeding going and then pop some little cichlids in at the point where I wouldn't mind some fry going missing. I do love the wild types
Yeah, I think I'm going off the idea of them to be honest. Not the fish itself, but trying to keep them in my tanks, I'd be wracked with guilt if they got HITH because the tank environment stressed them out.
NoRoom4Shoebox that sucks! I think that nearly happened to me, luckily I solved the problem. But of course I did, I'd recognise your icon anywhere, lol, and your name is nearly the same! I'm sorry you lost all your history though.
I think I'd maybe like to try keeping out the plainer blue acara, IDK. I'd love to keep angels, but I'd want a large group, and to do that I'd want to keep plucking out the troublemakers and replacing them until I got a harmonised group of adults and that sounds expensive and like a lot of work. Apart from the parrots, what was your favourite cichlid?
GlennO I'm intrigued, what kind of group numbers for each would you keep in a 120x50x50cm/48x20x20" tank? and would you do those groups including swordtails for dithers?
Thank you so much for your help, I appreciate that you took the time to answer!
