I use the same
test strips, they have been accurate in my opinion, yeah you reverse the reading for nitrites and
nitrates. they put them in a weird order on the strip
between the previous one and now this one, I'd say it's the species, and probably its the Dwarf Gourami Iridovirus, which they are carriers of in the hobby.There is no treatment to make it better if it is that. they all kind of have it as carriers unless you know for sure it came from clean stock/ breeder. or they just got lucky and missed it as a fry at the breeder.
From my experience with dwarf gouramis, (admittedly limited) they can be "big bellied" due to genetics of inbreeding, But if it develops later, it's usually the iridovirus taking hold a lot of them have it as carriers, while I like their colors and they are pretty, I won't keep them again because of this I don't want to deal with it appearing 1-2-3-6-9 months later from dormancy to activity.
Generally speaking it starts with erratic behavior, bursts of swimming or darting just not normal, then comes an eating disorder in some, they sometime starve themselves and eventually die. in other they swell up and it causes organ failure from the virus.
if it were bloat it wouldn't be building over time, it would have seemed like it appeared overnight.
There is no treatment to make it better if it is that, its a virus and genetic cause, and it's going to drop the fish eventually. mortality is near 100% with it and they usually drop between 20 and 40 days depending on the symtoms and how fast it progresses. starvation symptoms move faster to death than bloat and
dropsy symptoms which lead to organ failures.
Any other dwarf gouramis in with it are likely carriers at the least also if it is it, it's really contagious.
This doesn't appear in the wild populations, just at the farms and from there to hobby breeders. it's speculated it could be a genetic trigger from inbreeding or the virus is passing in the confines of the farms and laying dormant in the fry that survive their first infection and they become carriers and it reappears at maturity with a stressing event. .
Fingers crossed that it's some weird bloating/constipation or maybe an eggbound female. You could try
epsom salt baths to see if it does anything to relax and release, if egg bound female relaxing might also get her to push them out. but if unlaid eggs they are supposed to reabsorb them, that can malfunction...
Not sure, but it sounds to me like it's the DGI by how long it's been going on and what happened with the other fish. if so, I'm sorry. I been down this road and lost a group of 6 and swore never again.