starspeckledsky
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I thought that I'd outline my story first before continuing.
So late April my friend visited (she lives 2.5 hours car drive away) over the weekend. We took her to an on-going carnival/fair. While there, she decided to take her shot at the fish winning game. She claimed that she "didn't think she was going to win." She won. Her mom wouldn't allow her to take the fish with her home, and we had a 3-gallon tank gifted to us a few years ago, so we put him (the fish) in there. I am a huge researcher/planner, so I read everything I could find on it. I learned about water quality, the nitrogen cycle, goldfish-specific things - everything. I started panicking. Based on multiple sources, I knew that one goldfish needs anywhere between 40-100 gallons (different sources said different things). When we got my goldfish he was small, but I also read about stunting. So, naturally, I asked my parents if we could get a bigger tank, at least 40. I told them that I was willing to work for it and earn it. They refused. My mom went on about how "3 gallons is really big!" and "he is such a small fish, I don't see any need." When I kept insisting, she got angry at said that she'd throw my fish into the trash can if I didn't stop complaining. I made a presentation about the nitrogen cycling, goldfish waste, stunting, etc. and presented to my dad - nothing. He got angry and asked why I didn't just release him into the wild then, not paying attention to my explanation that just one goldfish in the wild can destroy a whole ecosystem. I then asked about rehoming - I was attached to my goldfish, yes, but I wanted him to have a better life than swimming in his own poop. My parents refused that too because apparently "no need."
This all happened in April and May. Over the summer I believe that my parents, my mom especially, have warmed up to the fish (I left my fish in my mom's care when I was away for a summer camp). Recently I asked again for a bigger tank, and while they still refused, it was less vehement. The main issue, according to my mom, is space. We don't know if we're going to move or not for my high school, and she thinks that moving a very large tank would be a hassle to move (if we move).
One last thing - my family wants to get another fish to go with my current one.
Alright, so I have been brainstorming a few options.
1) Get a bigger tank. This probably won't happen, as these things are expensive in the sizes that goldfish need. I live in central Virginia and have been looking on Craiglist and eBay - nothing. Are they relatively easy to move around (if we move)?
2) Buy an Intex pool for a temporary above-ground pond. I've been looking online and these things seem relatively cheap, especially compared to tanks that hold the same amount of water. Are these safe to use? Would they work? If we got this, it would probably go in our basement. I'm looking at and . Can you take them down and then put them back up again? We tend to move every 5-7 years so I don't know if I could ever move him to a permanent pond, but once we decide whether we're staying or moving we could move him to a large tank.
Any sort of feedback is appreciated. Currently I change 50-60% of the tank water every day or every two days and dose Prime daily. I did a whole-tank cleanout in early July and plan on doing another sometime very soon (there is a whole poop layer underneath gravel, during my water changes I stir it up and scoop as much as I can out).
So late April my friend visited (she lives 2.5 hours car drive away) over the weekend. We took her to an on-going carnival/fair. While there, she decided to take her shot at the fish winning game. She claimed that she "didn't think she was going to win." She won. Her mom wouldn't allow her to take the fish with her home, and we had a 3-gallon tank gifted to us a few years ago, so we put him (the fish) in there. I am a huge researcher/planner, so I read everything I could find on it. I learned about water quality, the nitrogen cycle, goldfish-specific things - everything. I started panicking. Based on multiple sources, I knew that one goldfish needs anywhere between 40-100 gallons (different sources said different things). When we got my goldfish he was small, but I also read about stunting. So, naturally, I asked my parents if we could get a bigger tank, at least 40. I told them that I was willing to work for it and earn it. They refused. My mom went on about how "3 gallons is really big!" and "he is such a small fish, I don't see any need." When I kept insisting, she got angry at said that she'd throw my fish into the trash can if I didn't stop complaining. I made a presentation about the nitrogen cycling, goldfish waste, stunting, etc. and presented to my dad - nothing. He got angry and asked why I didn't just release him into the wild then, not paying attention to my explanation that just one goldfish in the wild can destroy a whole ecosystem. I then asked about rehoming - I was attached to my goldfish, yes, but I wanted him to have a better life than swimming in his own poop. My parents refused that too because apparently "no need."
This all happened in April and May. Over the summer I believe that my parents, my mom especially, have warmed up to the fish (I left my fish in my mom's care when I was away for a summer camp). Recently I asked again for a bigger tank, and while they still refused, it was less vehement. The main issue, according to my mom, is space. We don't know if we're going to move or not for my high school, and she thinks that moving a very large tank would be a hassle to move (if we move).
One last thing - my family wants to get another fish to go with my current one.
Alright, so I have been brainstorming a few options.
1) Get a bigger tank. This probably won't happen, as these things are expensive in the sizes that goldfish need. I live in central Virginia and have been looking on Craiglist and eBay - nothing. Are they relatively easy to move around (if we move)?
2) Buy an Intex pool for a temporary above-ground pond. I've been looking online and these things seem relatively cheap, especially compared to tanks that hold the same amount of water. Are these safe to use? Would they work? If we got this, it would probably go in our basement. I'm looking at and . Can you take them down and then put them back up again? We tend to move every 5-7 years so I don't know if I could ever move him to a permanent pond, but once we decide whether we're staying or moving we could move him to a large tank.
Any sort of feedback is appreciated. Currently I change 50-60% of the tank water every day or every two days and dose Prime daily. I did a whole-tank cleanout in early July and plan on doing another sometime very soon (there is a whole poop layer underneath gravel, during my water changes I stir it up and scoop as much as I can out).