So my sparkler pair was spawning for the second time tonight (first batch was eaten by the ember tetras - I thought they weren't a risk but those fry were tiny!) and all seemed well at first... I left the room and when I came back the timer had shut their light off, so I turned it back on and weird stuff was happening. They are done spawning, but the male isn't guarding the nest at all, the female keeps popping in there and eating eggs, and then chasing him around flaring her fins at him. He wants none of it, he is running and hiding and just being super weird and timid, and has no interest whatsoever in going near the nest area. There's no nipping going on, or even any physical contact - when he guards the nest he nips her tail, and when she's mad at him she nips his, but she's just following him around displaying. It seems like maybe she had more eggs and the light going off interrupted them, and she's trying to get him to finish, and for some reason he just doesn't want to. Is this possible? I was trying to keep her out of the nest but I can't do that all night, and he's not tending to it anyway so I figured the worst that'll happen is she eats them and they spawn again in a few days. Anyone with sparkler experience have any thought on this?