I'm dying (desperate) to figure out what in the world is wrong with my female Opaline Gourami, Pauline the Opaline. Before I spend time explaining what's wrong and then only to see comments like, "well I don't know about gouramis, but it could be...", I really need actual help from people who have/do owned/own an Opaline Gourami. I mean, I've had her over 3 years, wonderful tank, normal parameters, calm home environment (zero kids, quiet home) etc., I'm beginning to lose a little patience with her because there's no reason she should be acting this way. I've done extensive research and can't find a single reason. I'll explain what's up when I find people who can help. Thanks.