1 male white n 1 female gold Gourami . The male will stay at top while female at bottom behind the bushes . Male don't harass or stress her in any way . When i feed them the male will finish within 1 minute while the female is a slow eater often spitting out then again catching n eating the feed . That male will snap at the food that female spit out as soon as shes about to re-catch it . What should i do ? Separate them ?