Don't read other threads you'll go crazy lol. And yes your family will keep asking, I have a 240 gallon tank and I'm being asked when are the fish coming even though we've already been through a cycle previously! Easiest answer is "they'll come when the tank is ready".I guess reading others tank being ready so much faster than mine getting me jealous haha. My family always asking where the fishes at x).
Thanks for your help so far tho!! I will keep you updated when nothing or something weird shows up!
Best way to think about it is this, you plan to keep the fish alot longer than a month or so, so what harm is there waiting that much time to ensure your preparing the best environment for those fish