bassbonediva
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Hey all. I just moved into a new "apartment" (my friend's guest house) and of course brought my 4-year-old neutered aussie/st bernard, Cash, with me. My friend has three dogs: a 7-year-old spayed lab and two cocker spaniels, a male and female (both altered). The cockers aren't allowed out with the lab because the female cocker is extremely dominant and the last time she annoyed the lab so much that the lab retaliated and nearly killed the cocker. Generally speaking, though, the lab is extremely laid back. Here is my problem...
Cash is extremely dog reactive with large dogs. He adores dogs smaller than himself (we dog sat a schnauzer for a friend of ours and Cash was absolutely perfect with him and he just LOVES my mom's little malti-poo). His reactiveness stems from being attacked at dog parks several times (none of which were at his instigation...I'll explain the attacks later). Now he has a very "I'm going to get you before you get me" attitude.
The first time he was attacked, it was by a white pit bull (have nothing against pits...think they can be some of the best dogs out there, IF they are raised correctly). The pit actually was trying to get at me, but Cash happened to be right there after "checking in" with me and intervened. He had the pit pinned down by the neck by the time I was able to break through the ring of morons who were crowded around speculating on the best way to break up the fight. I pulled him off her, put his harness on, and we left. I only know the pit was trying to get ME because as the couple who owned the pit walked by my truck, I asked if she was alright and took a step toward them. Immediately the pit lunged at me snarling and snapping.
The second time, it wasn't a dog that attacked him, exactly. We were in the big dogs' side of the park with an annoying little white boxer puppy (who was in horrible shape!) and Cash was obsessing over the little dogs playing next door. The puppy just kept going after Cash's face to get him to play, so finally he turned around and "yelled" at her (basically told her to back off, but didn't hurt her at all). Next thing I know, the idiot owner of the puppy has Cash pinned to the ground and is yelling at him. I rushed over and told him to get off my dog. Seriously! First, the way he pinned Cash was NOT the way you do it (if you believe in pinning a dog, which I don't unless it's an absolute last resort) and second, how the heck could he know that my dog wouldn't bite him?! Gah!
Anyway, the third and fourth time were at the same park on the same day. We showed up at a DIFFERENT park than the first two incidents (this one was within walking distance of our apartment). We walked in the gate and I let Cash off his leash. He immediately ran over to the other dogs (a big unneutered weim, a female landseer, and a little female chow/shepherd mix pup) to say hi. Without preamble, the landseer attacked him. The owner of the landseer told me that her dog doesn't like new dogs (then why the heck are you at a dog park?!) and that since they'd been there a while and we just got there, they'd leave. Cash played with the other two dogs for over an hour with absolutely no problems. Then these two guys showed up with two aussie puppies and an adult female border collie. The guy with the BC came in the gate first and let his dog off leash. Immediately Cash went over to say hi. He started to initiate play and the BC attacked him. The dog's stupid owner was standing over both dogs, screaming at them and BEATING them with the bull snap on his leash! I got the fight broken up and we left.
Ever since these incidents, Cash has gotten progressively worse. He loves my sister's lab, but she's 14 and doesn't care about anything anymore. He is terrified of my sister's 5lbs overweight chihuahua. However, I can't take him to Petsmart or Petco because if we see another dog, he goes absolutely nuts (he starts almost hyperventilating and whining really loud and will try to pull me over to the other dog). He was okay with my parents' neighbor's two aussies through the fence, but the few times they ran out to meet him on the road, there was a fight between him and the male (granted, they were charging out pretty aggressively).
Fast forward to the other day. I brought Cash over to our new place with the express purpose of letting him meet Dory (my friend's lab). Dory came out into the driveway where we were and they started sniffing each other. Next thing I know, completely without provocation (that I could see), Cash is on top of Dory with a mouthful of her scruff and he's trying to get her pinned. I had him on a leash, so I'm hauling back on him, but he won't let go of Dory and I can't grab his mouth to make him let go because Dory keeps reaching over her shoulder to get at him. Neither of them were hurt, thank heaven. So, now we're at a stalemate. Cash stays inside my apartment while I'm at work (thank heaven he's past his destructive phase!). When I get up in the morning, my friend takes Dory and the cockers inside so Cash can go out and pee. Then he's locked up in the apartment all day while I'm at work. When I get home, my friend's dogs go inside so Cash can again go out and pee. Today, my friend had to go into my apartment to get something and didn't think about the fact that Dory was loose. Dory desperately wants to be friends with Cash, so she followed my friend up to my door. My friend tried to squeeze in the door while keeping Cash inside, but he somehow managed to slip by her and was almost on top of Dory again before my friend caught his collar and hauled him back inside.
So, what can I do to help Cash accept Dory? I'd love to be able to let him out and play with her all day, rather than having him cooped up inside all the time. One thing we're going to start doing (as soon as the play I'm working is finished this weekend) is we're going to start taking them for walks every evening together. I really need to get Cash another backpack (he killed his last one because I accidentally left it out) because it really helps focus him when we walk, but they're kind of expensive. Anyway, any other suggestions? Cash does have some basic obedience, but we've never been able to do formal obedience classes because when I first got him I didn't have the money, and by the time I had the money, he had gotten to the point where he would have tried to attack all the other dogs in the class.
Cash is extremely dog reactive with large dogs. He adores dogs smaller than himself (we dog sat a schnauzer for a friend of ours and Cash was absolutely perfect with him and he just LOVES my mom's little malti-poo). His reactiveness stems from being attacked at dog parks several times (none of which were at his instigation...I'll explain the attacks later). Now he has a very "I'm going to get you before you get me" attitude.
The first time he was attacked, it was by a white pit bull (have nothing against pits...think they can be some of the best dogs out there, IF they are raised correctly). The pit actually was trying to get at me, but Cash happened to be right there after "checking in" with me and intervened. He had the pit pinned down by the neck by the time I was able to break through the ring of morons who were crowded around speculating on the best way to break up the fight. I pulled him off her, put his harness on, and we left. I only know the pit was trying to get ME because as the couple who owned the pit walked by my truck, I asked if she was alright and took a step toward them. Immediately the pit lunged at me snarling and snapping.
The second time, it wasn't a dog that attacked him, exactly. We were in the big dogs' side of the park with an annoying little white boxer puppy (who was in horrible shape!) and Cash was obsessing over the little dogs playing next door. The puppy just kept going after Cash's face to get him to play, so finally he turned around and "yelled" at her (basically told her to back off, but didn't hurt her at all). Next thing I know, the idiot owner of the puppy has Cash pinned to the ground and is yelling at him. I rushed over and told him to get off my dog. Seriously! First, the way he pinned Cash was NOT the way you do it (if you believe in pinning a dog, which I don't unless it's an absolute last resort) and second, how the heck could he know that my dog wouldn't bite him?! Gah!
Anyway, the third and fourth time were at the same park on the same day. We showed up at a DIFFERENT park than the first two incidents (this one was within walking distance of our apartment). We walked in the gate and I let Cash off his leash. He immediately ran over to the other dogs (a big unneutered weim, a female landseer, and a little female chow/shepherd mix pup) to say hi. Without preamble, the landseer attacked him. The owner of the landseer told me that her dog doesn't like new dogs (then why the heck are you at a dog park?!) and that since they'd been there a while and we just got there, they'd leave. Cash played with the other two dogs for over an hour with absolutely no problems. Then these two guys showed up with two aussie puppies and an adult female border collie. The guy with the BC came in the gate first and let his dog off leash. Immediately Cash went over to say hi. He started to initiate play and the BC attacked him. The dog's stupid owner was standing over both dogs, screaming at them and BEATING them with the bull snap on his leash! I got the fight broken up and we left.
Ever since these incidents, Cash has gotten progressively worse. He loves my sister's lab, but she's 14 and doesn't care about anything anymore. He is terrified of my sister's 5lbs overweight chihuahua. However, I can't take him to Petsmart or Petco because if we see another dog, he goes absolutely nuts (he starts almost hyperventilating and whining really loud and will try to pull me over to the other dog). He was okay with my parents' neighbor's two aussies through the fence, but the few times they ran out to meet him on the road, there was a fight between him and the male (granted, they were charging out pretty aggressively).
Fast forward to the other day. I brought Cash over to our new place with the express purpose of letting him meet Dory (my friend's lab). Dory came out into the driveway where we were and they started sniffing each other. Next thing I know, completely without provocation (that I could see), Cash is on top of Dory with a mouthful of her scruff and he's trying to get her pinned. I had him on a leash, so I'm hauling back on him, but he won't let go of Dory and I can't grab his mouth to make him let go because Dory keeps reaching over her shoulder to get at him. Neither of them were hurt, thank heaven. So, now we're at a stalemate. Cash stays inside my apartment while I'm at work (thank heaven he's past his destructive phase!). When I get up in the morning, my friend takes Dory and the cockers inside so Cash can go out and pee. Then he's locked up in the apartment all day while I'm at work. When I get home, my friend's dogs go inside so Cash can again go out and pee. Today, my friend had to go into my apartment to get something and didn't think about the fact that Dory was loose. Dory desperately wants to be friends with Cash, so she followed my friend up to my door. My friend tried to squeeze in the door while keeping Cash inside, but he somehow managed to slip by her and was almost on top of Dory again before my friend caught his collar and hauled him back inside.
So, what can I do to help Cash accept Dory? I'd love to be able to let him out and play with her all day, rather than having him cooped up inside all the time. One thing we're going to start doing (as soon as the play I'm working is finished this weekend) is we're going to start taking them for walks every evening together. I really need to get Cash another backpack (he killed his last one because I accidentally left it out) because it really helps focus him when we walk, but they're kind of expensive. Anyway, any other suggestions? Cash does have some basic obedience, but we've never been able to do formal obedience classes because when I first got him I didn't have the money, and by the time I had the money, he had gotten to the point where he would have tried to attack all the other dogs in the class.