Hi, I was wondering if someone could help me the sex of my blue rams.. since I thought they were male and female. One you could clearly see it has a red belly and blue scaling in the black spot. The other one I got had poor coloring when I got it, but now that I had it for a week its starting to take color.. it looks like a female. Lol. Theirs blue scaling inside the black spot but it doesn't have a pink belly, but it think its also older. Can someone confirm this?