hi my name is lisa...im a new member. okay, so i buy these two blue gouramis, and put them with my rosey barbs...well the gouramis seemed to be mating, but then things start to get wierd. everytime i come home, i go look at the tank, and there is the abused gourami...still and listless up in the corner in the plants vertically. it looks very dark, and like in a trance. so i take the aggressive one out, and put it with my chiclids. eveything seems to be okay...but i know they are aggressive, so im not sure if they will be okay.i put plenty of hiding places in there...the gourami is about 3 inches long...the chiclids are: two small lemons, two medium orange ones, and one big blue one...about 5 inches. any thoughts?