I have 2 honey gouramis a female, who is bigger and stronger than my male, but quite good natured and leaves him alone as long as he leaves her alone, the problem is he DOESN'T leave her alone, as soon as I run on the light unless there's food in the tank to keep him occupied he IMMEDIATELY goes to try to pick a fight with her and he ALWAYS loses and ends up being the one with a torn up tail at the end. Is this a dominance thing? Is he just annoyed that he used to be able to just chase her around and she'd just let him and now she finally stood up for herself but he wants to be the Alfa? He keeps picking fights and getting beat up I'd prefer not to have to separate them but am worried I'll have to, I'm honestly surprised he doesn't just sink to the bottom he's so dense. Any ideas?