Ok sound to start off; charlene ended up being correct about my new jd being male. Two days after being in the tank he light up like a christmas tree. The good news is that they still get along great. Now the bad news, everytime i enter the room the new guy comes to the glass begging for food: my old guy still will not come out of his pot for anything. He ends up not eating because no matter how much food i put in the new one eats every peice. He hasent eaten for about a week and a half now and im really worried. I went oit and bought the water test kit rather than the strips i had just to be sure and the water perameters are perfect. Does anyone have any advice!?!?!