I guess, I am gonna be a father.

I have not visited the forum for the past couple of days, we at last got a positive result on the PT, heading to OB tomorrow to see if everything is alright. I am excited, scared, nervous, basically overwhelmed with emotions. Am I ready? Do I have what it takes to be a father? So many many many questions. Lol

 

Congratulations

 

Lol. I've learned quickly that it's best to just roll with it. There isn't a point to add stress to a situation that's already full of a myriad of emotions.

Congratulations, though. Wish you, the wife, and kid to be the best!

 

I guess so, but I did not know I can feel those emotions all at the same time. and I am all excited to introduce the kid to fish keeping!

and thank you! macdoona Grimund

 

Congrats!! I am not a father nor guy, so I can't give you tips on that part, but I can give you tips on what your wife feels. To make her happy just make the progress as easy as you can. Also when the baby comes you guys will have to take turns caring for the baby at 3am lol. Best of luck!

 

Congrats on the best journey of your lives. Relax and enjoy the process, and just realize that boy or girl they will have you wrapped around their little finger. Both you and your wife. I am very happy for you both. Alison

 

Congratulations!

 

Congratulations, that's wonderful news

 

Congratulations! That really is such wonderful news. Definitely natural to feel all those emotions and being a parent is not something you will ever be 100% ready and prepared for. You just do your best and love that child to bits!!

 

Congratulations! Hope the baby is into fish too

 

Congratulations Cef!

 

Congratulations Cef! Dude, you will be ready, it's crazy! All that anxiety will wash away once you hold your baby in a second. Hands down, it will be the best day of your life!!!

First diaper change...you'll never forget that lol!

Just trying to lighten up your mood, but yeah, you'll love it! Enjoy and savor every moment, they grow up fast! I remember racing home after work, jumping in the shower like a lunatic so I hold my baby girl...miss those days!

 

congrats, its good to be nervous, just means
you're taking it seriously

 

It's a big change they get more fun everyday imo! Not a baby person really even as a mom but once they start laughing and crawlibg they are so fun!

 

They definitely are more fun but it was also nice to lay them on your chest and watch them sleep...it was so relaxing

 

Thank you all for the encouragement! Am tearing up! Wife said to just restrain myself on my current 4 aquariums for the meantime lol. I am hoping it is a girl, am gonna spoil the heck out of her hahaha.

 

Nothing like it Cef...best part of my day after busting my to come home for hugs and kisses from my little girls!

 

There's another bonus of being able to get away with being a total goof in public. I love acting off just to get a smile or giggle