Help Me Cheer Up?

I can't stop crying. I got injured at work cuz they didn't listen to me, was forced to continue working to the point I can't use my hand anymore. It's been a week and it's still really messed up.

They made me jump through all these hoops all while not doing anything for me. I'm out a weeks 's paycheck cuz they refused to let me work instead if just putting me somewhere I could do.

Went back to the drs today .It's not broken but he wrote me another Dr note saying I can't return to work until further notice. All I wanted was a new light duty note cuz work decided to ignore the forms I just gave them saying light duty until the Dr says so and instead use the original note that they said wasn't good enough that said light duty for a week.

Last week and this week's paychecks were supposed to be my birthday money checks. I'm already kinda struggling with not having enough money to support myself, and like..

Now I can't buy what I had planned. I have bills my insurance won't cover but I'm not approved for workers comp cuz I still haven't gotten sent the paperwork so idk how those are getting paid cuz I can't afford to pay them.

I know what needs to be done but my job needs to do it and won't. It's out of my hands but I'm the one being punished for it.

I can't stop crying cuz I just want this to stop. All they have to do is listen to me. Why is that so hard?

Can anyone help me feel better? Idk what to do right now and I just need help calming down .o.

I'm sorry I'm bugging you guys about this, I know this isn't really the place for it xP

 

I'm so sorry, that's terrible. I can't offer much advice, because I wouldn't know what to do myself in that situation.
I can say this; you are an amazing person. Truly amazing. You do so much for the people and animals around you, much much more than the average person. Think of how many lives you helped with your betta rescue, and it was truly inspiring so you likely helped more than you know.
You're a good person. This is a setback, yes, but you can get through it.

 

Here’s some pics of my cats and stuff

 

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I think you need to call your work comp adjuster about your claim. I don't know how Connecticut claims work but typically when one is off work you should be getting something called Temporary Total Disability (TTD). If your company can't provide the light duty you would still qualify for partial disability benefits as well, what we call on our end (TPD).

Does your claim have to be accepted for your to earn TTD/TPD benefits?

Sometimes when claimant's feel they are being wronged by the system I would advise them that they have the right to obtain and attorney or at least consult one when a claimant thinks they are being screwed. So I would advise that you seek legal and ask them about your situation.

Also if you want you can call the ombudsmans office. You can call the information number to speak to the WCC regarding your case and somebody at the state can help clear things up if things are confusion, if you don't want to seek legal advice. 1-800-223-9675

FYI, I'm a Workers Comp adjuster.

 

I'm so sorry, that's terrible. I can't offer much advice, because I wouldn't know what to do myself in that situation.
I can say this; you are an amazing person. Truly amazing. You do so much for the people and animals around you, much much more than the average person. Think of how many lives you helped with your betta rescue, and it was truly inspiring so you likely helped more than you know.
You're a good person. This is a setback, yes, but you can get through it.

Thank you, that means a lot. I really don't think I did that much by rescuing them but I'm happy you think so.

I know I'll get through it just ugh. I was planning on upgrading my tanks and doing things for my pond. I guess I'll just have to wait a bit more xP

I could always save up a larger amount and do more upgrades all at once to make up for it I guess.

Here’s some pics of my cats and stuff

Your cats are adorable! Cat pictures always help me feel better 8D and omg the bugs!!! That's so cool :0

I think you need to call your work comp adjuster about your claim. I don't know how Connecticut claims work but typically when one is off work you should be getting something called Temporary Total Disability (TTD). If your company can't provide the light duty you would still qualify for partial disability benefits as well, what we call on our end (TPD).

Does your claim have to be accepted for your to earn TTD/TPD benefits?

Sometimes when claimant's feel they are being wronged by the system I would advise them that they have the right to obtain and attorney or at least consult one when a claimant thinks they are being screwed. So I would advise that you seek legal and ask them about your situation.

Also if you want you can call the ombudsmans office. You can call the information number to speak to the WCC regarding your case and somebody at the state can help clear things up if things are confusion, if you don't want to seek legal advice. 1-800-223-9675

FYI, I'm a Workers Comp adjuster.

I'm honestly not sure? Work isn't giving me much info and no one I know knows much more other than state sends the paperwork after work reports it (I don't think they did even though they said they did last week)

I'm on "light duty" now but they want me to get off it already even though I've only been back to work 4 days :I (17 hours total) like they see I can't use my hand at all and it's crazy swollen but they don't care.

I honestly want to at this point but I can't afford it and it wouldn't be worth it unfortunately.

Omg thank you for the number and website!

 

I think you need to call your work comp adjuster about your claim. I don't know how Connecticut claims work but typically when one is off work you should be getting something called Temporary Total Disability (TTD). If your company can't provide the light duty you would still qualify for partial disability benefits as well, what we call on our end (TPD).

Does your claim have to be accepted for your to earn TTD/TPD benefits?

Sometimes when claimant's feel they are being wronged by the system I would advise them that they have the right to obtain and attorney or at least consult one when a claimant thinks they are being screwed. So I would advise that you seek legal and ask them about your situation.

Also if you want you can call the ombudsmans office. You can call the information number to speak to the WCC regarding your case and somebody at the state can help clear things up if things are confusion, if you don't want to seek legal advice. 1-800-223-9675

FYI, I'm a Workers Comp adjuster.

That is a really helpful post!

I'm not American, so I can't comment on the system, but if your work ignored written medical advice from your doctor, surely you have grounds for a complaint. Does your work have a grievance/complaints policy?

I'm guessing you aren't in a union, is it possible to join one? I know my union has a legal team and provides legal advice to members.

 

Here’s some pics of my cats and stuff

Animals are the best things to cheer people up!
Here's my dog after I told her "Walkies!"


It may not fix the problem, sadly but it's the best I can do.

 

That is a really helpful post!

I'm not American, so I can't comment on the system, but if your work ignored written medical advice from your doctor, surely you have grounds for a complaint. Does your work have a grievance/complaints policy?

I'm guessing you aren't in a union, is it possible to join one? I know my union has a legal team and provides legal advice to members.

They said they do but I don't know anything about it. I actually am in a union but my union is just as bad sadly. I don't like going to them cuz I have twice and both times they were very rude to me and didn't help. Kinda just made it worse honestly

Animals are the best things to cheer people up!
Here's my dog after I told her "Walkies!"
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It may not fix the problem, sadly but it's the best I can do.

Animals do help a lot. Omg she looks so excited x3

 

Search 35 corgis to get you through the day on youtube.
Watch it a few times and you will be fine.

 

They said they do but I don't know anything about it. I actually am in a union but my union is just as bad sadly. I don't like going to them cuz I have twice and both times they were very rude to me and didn't help. Kinda just made it worse honestly

What? That's crazy! The union is meant to protect you in just such situations. I am really sorry to hear that. Is it possible to go through another person in the union, e.g. if the problem is with your work place rep, going through the branch chair? If the union has a website, I'd look for other contact details. You pay your dues, you have every right to be supported.

 

Search 50 corgis that will make your day on youtube.

:0 very curious now lol -runs to do that-

What? That's crazy! The union is meant to protect you in just such situations. I am really sorry to hear that. Is it possible to go through another person in the union, e.g. if the problem is with your work place rep, going through the branch chair? If the union has a website, I'd look for other contact details. You pay your dues, you have every right to be supported.

My union rep is okay I guess? At least at first. Just he gets told no to basically everything. And then things go south. I think it's a problem with the union itself, not so much him. Though he does say rude things at times. Most of the rude stuff comes from above him

 

I'm honestly not sure? Work isn't giving me much info and no one I know knows much more other than state sends the paperwork after work reports it (I don't think they did even though they said they did last week)

I'm on "light duty" now but they want me to get off it already even though I've only been back to work 4 days :I (17 hours total) like they see I can't use my hand at all and it's crazy swollen but they don't care.

I honestly want to at this point but I can't afford it and it wouldn't be worth it unfortunately.

Omg thank you for the number and website!

Call the state and ask them who the insurance carrier is and the contact for that carrier. If the insured (the company you are working for) is being mute you need to find out who is the carrier, and like mentioned call the state to see who it is. From my end I always try to keep all parties on the same page. It can be tough when parties are mute.

 

:0 very curious now lol -runs to do that-


My union rep is okay I guess? At least at first. Just he gets told no to basically everything. And then things go south. I think it's a problem with the union itself, not so much him. Though he does say rude things at times. Most of the rude stuff comes from above him

Aww, I'm really sorry about this. I hope it gets sorted for you.

 

Call the state and ask them who the insurance carrier is and the contact for that carrier. If the insured (the company you are working for) is being mute you need to find out who is the carrier, and like mentioned call the state to see who it is. From my end I always try to keep all parties on the same page. It can be tough when parties are mute.

Okay thanks. Gonna try to deal with this tomorrow. Yeah xP I kept them informed with everything I did and why they were waiting on me, they actually got mad I was doing that for some reason. Idk xP but do unto others is a thing I live by so!

Aww, I'm really sorry about this. I hope it gets sorted for you.

Thanks. I'm sure it will eventually it's just so frustrating xP

 

I'd call an attorney. You were injured at work after telling them you were being pushed beyond your limits. That sounds like a case. There are plenty of firms out there that won't charge you for legal fees unless you win a settlement. Anyway, they should be able to tell you if you have a decent chance. It might be worth checking out

 

IM so sorry your having a tough time right now. I hope things get better for you!!!

 

I'd call an attorney. You were injured at work after telling them you were being pushed beyond your limits. That sounds like a case. There are plenty of firms out there that won't charge you for legal fees unless you win a settlement. Anyway, they should be able to tell you if you have a decent chance. It might be worth checking out

Hmm I'll try to look into it if I can find someone close enough. Thanks.

IM so sorry your having a tough time right now. I hope things get better for you!!!

Thank you. That's cute lol

 

I'm not so good with advice but here's my hamster Macaroni, she always cheers me up
She has a bigger cage now

 

I'm not so good with advice but here's my hamster Macaroni, she always cheers me up
She has a bigger cage now

Awww!! I love hamsters xD

 

Take action and do what everyone has suggested! I hope everything works out, and it sucks that this is happening

 

Stevie is smiling

 

Take action and do what everyone has suggested! I hope everything works out, and it sucks that this is happening

Trying so hard to! I'm beating my anxiety issues back as much as I can to get this sorted

Stevie is smiling View attachment 454394

Who is this gorgeous reptile!? <333

 

Who is this gorgeous reptile!? <333

My bearded dragon! he likes to smile

 

My bearded dragon! he likes to smile View attachment 454395

Omg so cute xD mine rarely did that but she loved to poop on me xP nasty. Only me though. Idk why cuz she liked me most but okay :I

Finally calmed down. Thanks everyone <3

I decided to cut down on my upgrade plans and put some of my emergency money into my bank and just let myself enjoy my birth month like I wanted.

 

I understand what you are feeling!
Sorry, life just gets rough sometimes.
I hope you feel better

 

Happy early birthday!!
If you don't mind me asking, what do you have planned?

 

Nothing in this world is permanent, my dear...
Not even our troubles

 

I understand what you are feeling!
Sorry, life just gets rough sometimes.
I hope you feel better

Thank you <3 and yeah it does get rough sometimes. I wish I knew how to handle things better so I could of avoided all this stress. Or like didn't think every little thing was the end of the world xP

Happy early birthday!!
If you don't mind me asking, what do you have planned?

Thank you! Lol! Mainly tank upgrades.

My vacation for my bday was gonna be spent redoing all the tanks I got upgrades for and doing diy projects lol I'm bad xP

It will all be Okay, my dear.

Omg the puppy!!

 

Thank you! Lol! Mainly tank upgrades.

My vacation for my bday was gonna be spent redoing all the tanks I got upgrades for and doing diy projects lol I'm bad xP

That's what I did for my birthday, I redid one of my betta tanks There's nothing better then watching your fish explore the new environment you created.

 

That's what I did for my birthday, I redid one of my betta tanks There's nothing better then watching your fish explore the new environment you created.

Yeah! 8D it's really nice

I'm looking into cheaper upgrades I can do instead of what I originally wanted. I'll figure something out

 

I hope everything works out for you. I'm truly sorry you got dealt this crappy hand.
This to shall pass in the mean time: My goofy puppy Harley, my amazing kitty Mikey and my twins!
Oh! And my 4 yr old as a shark!

 

Nothing in this world is permanent, my dear...
Not even our troubles

LOL!

 

Cute pictures are cute <3

 

Cute pictures are cute <3

Of course! How are you feeling now?

 

Better. More calm but still a bit frustrated. Also I was bad and bought the upgrade stuff. I saved a good chunk of money and cut my budget in half. But then I noticed the filter I wanted to get to v replace my broken one was almost half off and so were the rest of that brand. And my best friend approved upgrading 6 filters to them so xD I'm now $15 short my original budget butt I got more stuff than I thought I would.

So kinda bad but also not really? Cuz at least I didn't go over what I originally wanted to spend and I got more which is cool

 

Also I'm bad and am still working cuz they haven't asked for a Dr note yet <<

So I got to play with flowers all day since I literally can't do anything else with just one hand XD they can get over it.

This was my day today minus a couple things

 

Not so good at cheering people up but my guinea pigs are!!! hope this helps

 

Not so good at cheering people up but my guinea pigs are!!! hope this helps

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I miss my guinea pigs! Mine were both females.

 

Here’s an update on the girls I got from you.
They are fitting in well with my other bettas. Even with their swim bladder problems, they are still actively competing at feeding times.

They all love to rest in small cages and plants when it’s not feeding time and swim around a lot just before nightly feeding.