I'm worried that my dwarf gourami is getting skinny and not eating enough. In my tank, I have 4 neon tetras, 4 zebra danio, and 2 leopard danio along with my dwarf gourami. I only feed flakes (I have been trying to convince my parents to buy frozen/dried food), and during feeding the danio gobble up all the food, with the neon tetra getting a couple bites and the dwarf gourami getting none. I have tried giving the flakes right in front of the gourami, but the other fish zoom in. Now, I scoop up the gourami separately in a plastic bowl and feed it flakes there. However, the gourami won't/can't eat very big flakes (it spits them back out) and will only have some crushed up flakes. My dw gourami is getting very small, skinny, and pale! HELP!!!