Sooo I am feeling so poop about myself but I need the help. I have a special needs kiddo that wanted goldfish really bad and I thought that it would be very calming for him but it has been nothing but a disaster! Its a tall tank which I regret now because the fish are getting too big. And I originally had it planted and looking so lovely but they ate all the plants. I continued to try with more plants but its no use with our goldfish. And now they are big leaving me with little options for putting anything in the tank. It's sad really because there is only substrate in the tank now. My son loves fish but I'm afraid it would be better if we got different fish and gave these guys a better home. What do you guys think? I'm feeling guilty and stupid.