Hi! I have a male pearl gourami and a female three spot (opaline) gourami. They are in two separate tanks right now, but the three spot is not being very nice to her tankmates. I'm probably just going to trade her in to my LFS because I don't have any other tanks big enough that she could go in, besides the one with the pearl gourami. Just out of curiosity, has anyone ever had any luck keeping these fish in the same tank? From what I've seen, it looks like it's a pretty big risk and that they three spots usually end up killing the pearls. Would it make a difference that the three spot is a female and currently much smaller than the male pearl? Just trying to weigh my options. Thanks!