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I’m sorry this is long… But please read! I really need help/advice.
So for as long as I can remember, I’ve been dealing with a nightmare fish situation. Basically, my ex left me with dalmation mollies and red velvet swordtails—this turned into such a disaster because of the fry constantly being born. Up until yesterday, my 60 gallon had more fish than I could count. It was getting close to 150 fish. Mostly younger juvenillres but horribly overcrowded. Yikes!
I did 60-75% water changes every single day just to keep the ammonia out of the tank. Never missed a day. It was miserable for both me and the fish. And I couldn’t find anyone to take them... I tried everyone and every store near me. No luck.
Then, I found an answer (when I was about ready to give up)— a fish sanctuary about 2 hours away.
I didn’t think I’d be able to get these fish out of the tank and transported there myself so I wanted to ask them if they could pick up my fish, get them out of the tank and find them new homes. This seemed like way too much to ask, so I decided not to contact them until I had something valuable to offer in return.
So, for the past eight months, I put money aside with every paycheck and finally came up with $1,000 along with various fish food, decor, air stones, gravel, etc. which I offered as a donation if they would come take my fish. They agreed! I was thrilled (but also sad to be losing all my fish).
However, I’m starting to think I did all that for nothing because I made a huge mistake. Here is where I neee help. Please!
I kept seven fish. 4 dalmation mollies (all males) that have something wrong with them, and a fifth male dalmation mollie (my favorite). There were females I really wanted to keep, but knew I couldn’t because they could’ve been pregnant and this would start all over again.
I also kept the smallest male swordtail. The one that was always hiding and is just so thin and weak looking. He was always scared and hiding because of the 2 other males 3xs his size. I thought it would be nice to keep him so he could feel safe with the other fish gone.
The last fish was a mistake. A female swordtail had jumped up and got into my filter somehow (we turned them off to see the fish better). She must have been scared and did this to get away but we didn’t notice. I found her in there 45 minutes later alive. I should’ve turned my filters on sooner but I had the fish I was keeping in a temporary 10 gallon and wasn’t really thinking with all the commotion. But nevertheless, I accidentally kept a female swordtail—who seems unharmed and surprisingly normal and happy for what happens. So now I have a problem... I think.
First, going back to how I told you I had 150 fish… Only seven of them were swordtails. There were never any swordtail fry. I just assumed they were infertile. I guess it’s possible the fry were all being eaten, but I find that very hard to believe since there are so many hiding places and I would find new mollie fry almost daily. I always kept my fish well fed—to a fault. Overfed is probably more accurate. Sadly, I would also gravel vac dead molly fry from the gravel frequently. I never saw a dead baby swordtail.
Here are my questions:
It’s been over 24 hours since all the other fish were removed and the 7 fish were put back into the tank? I was so upset when I found the female. However, the male does not seem interested in the female whatsoever. And it doesn’t look like she’s pregnant. So I need to know if perhaps the male isn’t mature enough yet (even though he has to be at least a year old)? Or if he can sense she’s infertile? Or perhaps he just doesn’t want to breed with her and never will. That would be amazing news!
The only other tank I have right now is a 10 gallon uncycled. And after everything they have been through, I feel horrible about the idea of having to move one of them out of this huge tank (and for a 3rd time in 2 days) into something so small alone. But I didn’t spend all that money and go through all this for nothing.
So what would you do? If you think I need to separate them… Which one should I remove. I can get a bigger tank and cycle it, but not until I can save more money.
I’m hoping there’s a chance they could stay in his tank together and not have babies. So I posted 3 YouTube videos of them interacting. Can you please watch and share your thoughts/opinions/advice? Even when the swordtails get right next to each other, the gondofin (spelling?) never
moves toward the female. I’m hoping this is a good sign. Here are the YouTube video links:
Thank you!

So for as long as I can remember, I’ve been dealing with a nightmare fish situation. Basically, my ex left me with dalmation mollies and red velvet swordtails—this turned into such a disaster because of the fry constantly being born. Up until yesterday, my 60 gallon had more fish than I could count. It was getting close to 150 fish. Mostly younger juvenillres but horribly overcrowded. Yikes!
I did 60-75% water changes every single day just to keep the ammonia out of the tank. Never missed a day. It was miserable for both me and the fish. And I couldn’t find anyone to take them... I tried everyone and every store near me. No luck.
Then, I found an answer (when I was about ready to give up)— a fish sanctuary about 2 hours away.
I didn’t think I’d be able to get these fish out of the tank and transported there myself so I wanted to ask them if they could pick up my fish, get them out of the tank and find them new homes. This seemed like way too much to ask, so I decided not to contact them until I had something valuable to offer in return.
So, for the past eight months, I put money aside with every paycheck and finally came up with $1,000 along with various fish food, decor, air stones, gravel, etc. which I offered as a donation if they would come take my fish. They agreed! I was thrilled (but also sad to be losing all my fish).
However, I’m starting to think I did all that for nothing because I made a huge mistake. Here is where I neee help. Please!
I kept seven fish. 4 dalmation mollies (all males) that have something wrong with them, and a fifth male dalmation mollie (my favorite). There were females I really wanted to keep, but knew I couldn’t because they could’ve been pregnant and this would start all over again.
I also kept the smallest male swordtail. The one that was always hiding and is just so thin and weak looking. He was always scared and hiding because of the 2 other males 3xs his size. I thought it would be nice to keep him so he could feel safe with the other fish gone.
The last fish was a mistake. A female swordtail had jumped up and got into my filter somehow (we turned them off to see the fish better). She must have been scared and did this to get away but we didn’t notice. I found her in there 45 minutes later alive. I should’ve turned my filters on sooner but I had the fish I was keeping in a temporary 10 gallon and wasn’t really thinking with all the commotion. But nevertheless, I accidentally kept a female swordtail—who seems unharmed and surprisingly normal and happy for what happens. So now I have a problem... I think.
First, going back to how I told you I had 150 fish… Only seven of them were swordtails. There were never any swordtail fry. I just assumed they were infertile. I guess it’s possible the fry were all being eaten, but I find that very hard to believe since there are so many hiding places and I would find new mollie fry almost daily. I always kept my fish well fed—to a fault. Overfed is probably more accurate. Sadly, I would also gravel vac dead molly fry from the gravel frequently. I never saw a dead baby swordtail.
Here are my questions:
- Could there be a fertility issue and this swordtail female won’t get pregnant? Or do you think the stress from an overcrowded tank is what caused them not to breed?
- Is it possible that in an entire year, swordtail fry were being born and eaten before I could see a single one? I’m not sure how that would even be possible. Considering I was in that tank every single day.
- Is it possible that 2 swordtails will not breed, even if she is fertile?
- Is it possible this male never attempted to breed with the females because he was so scared and now maybe he will start once he gets comfortable and feels safe?
- What should I do?
It’s been over 24 hours since all the other fish were removed and the 7 fish were put back into the tank? I was so upset when I found the female. However, the male does not seem interested in the female whatsoever. And it doesn’t look like she’s pregnant. So I need to know if perhaps the male isn’t mature enough yet (even though he has to be at least a year old)? Or if he can sense she’s infertile? Or perhaps he just doesn’t want to breed with her and never will. That would be amazing news!
The only other tank I have right now is a 10 gallon uncycled. And after everything they have been through, I feel horrible about the idea of having to move one of them out of this huge tank (and for a 3rd time in 2 days) into something so small alone. But I didn’t spend all that money and go through all this for nothing.
So what would you do? If you think I need to separate them… Which one should I remove. I can get a bigger tank and cycle it, but not until I can save more money.
I’m hoping there’s a chance they could stay in his tank together and not have babies. So I posted 3 YouTube videos of them interacting. Can you please watch and share your thoughts/opinions/advice? Even when the swordtails get right next to each other, the gondofin (spelling?) never
moves toward the female. I’m hoping this is a good sign. Here are the YouTube video links:
Thank you!


