My concern is the admittedly out of control habits surrounding "MTS" etc. Why is it acceptable to behave this way with aquariums but not food or controlled substances or sex? Will any of you honestly engage with me and confront this issue? Have you seen particularly negative outcomes as far as becoming withdrawn or emotionally disconnected by obsessively keeping fish? From my experience the best fishkeepers are "eccentric" and poor communicators usually in the throws of a deep depression. Do any of you agree or is this just my problem?