giving out advice and information is very important, but just jumping in with advice, good or bad, can be intimidating to some new members especially when their wants and needs are not what we agree with ...we all started off with allot of misguided information at one time, and just advising whats not right to a new member, can make them feel attacked

Thank you All for making the forum a place that we ALL can feel comfortable with and for all the friendships we make daily