wait...so is it female, or you can't tell? I think it might be because the one male I put back in with them has developed some nice color. (The blender fish is still healing, another week or so at least).
You're right, it's not terribly happy...but that's how my others looked when I bought them too. It's in my tank now and has adjusted very well...as usual
I'm sure it'll start looking much better in a few days after it gets some proper feedings and has some swimming room.
EDIT: I found my Congo's mating today, the new ones are definitely female. I didn't even need to put on the smooth jazz!
What would I have to do to breed fish? I've never even considered it until now. I'm a little reluctant to buy much equipment because I don't know if they'd mate outside the large tank...and I'm pretty sure the catfish would eat any eggs well before they hatched.