1. They require around 5 Watts per gallon of somekind of flourescent. Compact flourescent is very common.
2. For soft corals a combo actinic (blue) and regular white Compact Flourescent is a good choice. Here's a link to the light I have for my soft coral tank.
http://www.marinedepot.com/ps_Aquari..._fixtures.html You can take a look at their lighting selection to get an idea of pricing. Again, 5 watts per gallon is a good number.
3. I use Rena Filstar XPs in all my tanks. The XP3 is fantastic. The only problem I've ever had was a small hole in the intake tube developed and I started getting massive amounts of air bubbles. That filter ran for about a year with no problems. Still runs fine now. Dot of superglue fixed the hole.
4. A fluidized bed is a type of filtration where filter media is suspended in a flowing colum of water. This increases the surface contact with the media as well as contact time. They're only really needed for large overstocked tanks and can be hazardous if not maintained properly. More modern technology has been eating away at the use of fluidized beds. They're unneeded in most average setups.
Photoperiod questions
1. Moon lights are a wonderful addition. Great for night viewing and to simulate natural moonlight.
2. To simulate dawn and dusk you'd have the actinics turn on 30 minutes to an hour before the main light comes on and turn off 30 minutes to an hour after the mains shut off. You leave both lights on in the day. I keep my actinics on for about 9 hours a day and the mains on for about 7.
I think that about answers your questions. Just look around at different compact flourescent combo lights. Look for one with the wattage for the tank you want and just price out the cheapest. The one I linked too is fairly priced but I've seen cheaper.