if you have sailfin moolies, the males have a larger dorsal than the females
but the most reliable way to find out which is male and female is by looking at the anal fin, which is just behind their belly. The male's fin is modified, a rod-like fin, called a
gonopodium, they use to insert into the females vent when mating. The females have a fan shaped anal fin, just like a typical fish. Check out the link below to see a comparison illustration.
http://thesmileyfish.com/wp-content/...calfish010.jpg