There are pros and cons in using either sand or gravel.
If you aim at using the good combination of reversed flow
UGF + other filter(s) to improve mechanical filtration (Oscars are the messiest fish I ever cared for) then you should go with gravel, just make sure you get a somewhat deep layer to protect the UGF grid-assembly.
Otherwise I am quite certain sand will be a better choice. Don't expect the substrate to remain at even levels since they will recreate the landscape at will/need. Sand is way easier to clean when vacuuming and keep reasonably clean.
I placed a
DIY mechanical filtration with a 370GPH submersible
powerhead + Marineland canister attached as prefilter. It keeps the substrate quite clean from solid debris at the left hand side of the tank (paired-off Oscars claimed tank territory).
I am trying to establish plants in the tank (mixed but encouraging results so far) so I might upgrade the substrate in the particular area where plants are left alone -if respected or ignored is hard to tell- with either a bottom layer of Eco Complete or by using a long, not too wide, barely tall clay pot (if I ever find one) for the plants (Vallisneria americana, Tropical hornwort, Anubias barteri so far so good; Swords, Anubias Afzelii, kind of total disaster).
Pepe
Santo Domingo
Pepe
Santo Domingo