Color changing and greying out are both stress indicators for the Oscars.
Before the waterchange today when was the last one and what %?
Did you cycle the tank before putting them in?
How big are they?
How long has the tank been setup?
Is it a male and female or two of the same gender?
What kind of catfish? (plecostomus of some sort?)
Are you putting any medications/chemicals in the water?
What are your
nitrite,
nitrate, and
ammonia readings?
What is the
pH of your water and is it soft or hard water?
Thanks for any answers you give, it will possibly help in diagnosis of what's wrong.