The Chief is helping you out on this one, but as I came across your latest question, I'll fill in briefly.
What you're meant to do frequently (I check if mine needs it weekly) is rinse out the filter media in used tank water. You only entirely replace it infrequently. So what you do is you take the filter medium out, and rinse it in tank water in a bucket from your water change. Like The Chief is saying, you're loosing a lot of good bacteria by replacing it so often, although your intentions are blatantly very good and you sound like you really want the best for the fish to be going through that much effort.
I know it's a lot to learn in one go, but soon you'll get the hang of most of the big don't s and hopefully you'll be good to go.
Could I suggest you also check our articles in the beginners section? They're quite informative when you're getting started.
http://www.fishlore.com/fishforum/fr...beginners.html
Early mistakes
http://www.fishlore.com/fishforum/fr...more-fish.html
If I had to summarise the essential lessons of basic fishkeepings those would be:
- always over-size your tanks. never undersize.
- water change, water change, water change
- research before getting any fish. never impulse-buy.
- don't listen to petstore advice without double-checking somewhere else.
I'll leave you back in The Chief's expert hands now.