Since I don't seperate my guppy fry from the parents I can't really say when to put them back

I I really don't have a problem with them eating them.
Their color starts showing up pretty good by four weeks and they can be sexed by then also. At the top of the breeding forum is a sticky titled "sexing live bearers" inside are pictures to show you what your looking for. The pictures aren't guppies but all livebearers are sexed the same way.
See if you have a local aquarium club, they can probably help you with any guppy questions that we can't answer for you.
also the American Livebearers Association at
http://www.livebearers.org/ should be able to answer any questions you have.
Carol