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Originally Posted by sirdarksol  Don't tell me this stuff. I'm often called "Monkey-Boy" because I'm so dang nimble. 
Sorry about the migraine, angela. My wife gets them periodically, and I know how horrible they make her days go. |
Thanks, Everyone...
Yea the migraines have been an issue since I was a teenager, and they have been a real problem for the past 2 years 2-3 times monthly they can been really severe! This is the worst one I have had in a long time since the
DOC put me on a prevenitve med for them I will have a "breakthrough" once every 2-3 months now... this one just happened to be a really bad one... It was the ones where your eye sight and everything is affected... you feel like throwing up, and when you have small children you want to tie them to the ceiling fan.... (luckily I have a mil who wanted to take them this weekend, and felt bad because she saw me in the middle of the start of my miagrane yesterday)
I did talk it over w/ my husband.. and he can be insensitive sometimes, after the talk he drove 45 min into town to get me supper because I didn't feel like cooking.. and offered to take me out, but after the miagrane didn't feel like leaving the house. He is even talking about taking a vacation day next Sat so we can do something together... if possible...
I do have to say as much as I do get mad at him, this is a man that on his last set of paychecks worked 160 hours in 2 weeks... he has 2 jobs as a paramedic (keep in mind they do 24 hour shifts to though)... but all said what husband would do that and ask the wife to only work part time so that they can stay at home and be a full time parent? Only until our youngest gets into school.. One day I will be able to look back on this time and really appriciate the time I have had w/ my 2 kids as a full time mom, being the "taxi driver", diaper changer... etc.. So hes not in any means a bad egg... just has his "insensitive moments" that I really get ticked about!
For instance I will go months w/o getting to do anything like getting a haircut, going out to eat, going out to the movies, anything I like to do w/o a kid tagging a long... then he gets upset if he goes 2 weeks w/o doing something.... but he doesn't look at how long its been for me, unless I make a huge deal about it. I even found a hairdresser that can cut and style my hair in 30 min so I can take the kids along... she is a great hairdresser too... its just the point, taking the kids! I need me time, and I also need just me and husband time too.. I don't want to be married to someone for years on end and when the kids leave the house look at him and say "who are you?" we need to still have reg dates... and not when its convenently out of hunting season...
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