Welcome to FishLore! It's nice to see when people research before jumping into the hobby.
First of all it depends on what size tank you want to get. And this sounds like a sales pitch but believe me (from experience) get the largest tank you can economically and environmentally afford. Remember the smaller the tank, the harder it is to maintain.
Most filters now are pretty quiet. If it's a power filter (hanging over the side) it usually gets noisy when the water gets to low or if the filter gets too clogged and trickles out the overflow. Stay away from
UGF (underground filters), the air pump and the bubbles they produce will make quite a bit of noise. If you get a large tank, a
canister filter is very quiet, especially if you can put it inside the stand underneath the tank.
Heaters and lights don't make any noise unless you get into the high output lights that need fans, but even they don't make much noise.
I also highly recommend reading about cycling your tank. Probably the hardest thing about this hobby... having patience! It usually takes 4-6 weeks to cycle a new tank. This is were most people mess up, loose fish and leave the hobby. Your researching will help you get past this stage. If you have other questions, this is one of the best websites you'll find for information!
Good luck in your decisions.