Hi Heather, I hope you don't mind, I moved your question to a thread of it's own. The other one was pretty old.
You don't look stupid.

How are you going to know if you don't ask, chances are someone else may be wondering the same thing.
Copied from our
Aquarium and Fish Dictionary:
Flashing :
used to describe the quick darting or fish flashing against objects in the aquarium. This can be signs of the onset of a disease known as
ICH in your fish. Watch them closely and hopefully, if they are new fish, they are in a quarantine tank where you'll be able to treat them effectively. If not, it may be a good idea to start getting a quarantine tank ready.