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Don't be sorry about asking too many questions, the whole point of this site is to ask questions.
I find it very sad that they flushed and killed the innocent fish instead of giving them away to friends or the pet store.
First of all, here's a basic explanation of the nitrogen cycle:
1. Fish eat food.
2. Fish waste and uneaten food in the water create
ammonia.
3. Bacteria,
Nitrosomonas, consume
Ammonia and degrade it into
nitrite (note the I: NitrIte)
4. Bacteria,
Nitrobacter, consume
Nitrite and degrade it into
nitrate (note the A: NitrAte)
5.
Nitrate sits in your tank until you do a
water change.
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Ammonia,
Nitrite, and
Nitrate are all toxic and dangerous for your fish.
So, before you add any fish, it is essential to cycle your tank.
Here's a basic explanation on cycling:
Cycling is the process in which you grow a colony of the two types of bacteria,
Nitrobacter and
Nitrosomonas to cope with ammonia, nitrite, and nitrate.
Read the link below on the Nitrogen Cycle.
It is essential reading to understand how to cycle a tank and the (hence) nitrogen cycle.
Before you start cycling your tank, buy a
test kit to test these things: Ammonia, Nitrite, Nitrate, and
pH. The
API Master test kit is strongly recommended. DO NOT BUY TEST STRIPS! THEY ARE INACCURATE, AND COST MORE PER TEST.
So now let me load you up on reading:
http://www.fishlore.com/FirstTankSetup.htm http://www.fishlore.com/NitrogenCycle.htm http://www.fishlore.com/aquarium-water-test-kit.htm
I know this might be rather boring, but they are absolutely essential to setting up a proper fish tank.
Remember, we all used to be beginners like you, so don't be afraid to ask more questions!
Ah, sounds just like chemistry class, doesn't it? 