im sorry for your loss
I agree with john...as well as the tank is so new, its probably a major ammonia issue ...I would start with some daily water changes and some prime water conditioner to help with cycling...and dont use any
pH additives...fluctuating ph's are normal when a tank is going through a cycle....chemicals arent good for the fish and work too fast to cause ph shock....using the strips could be also giving you a false reading on your nitrates/nitrites so upgrading your
test kit to a liquid is much more reliable..
API makes a master kit that does hundreds of tests....I hope things look up!