AlyeskaGirl

My opinion on this matter is that you asked for advice and it was givin to you. You then can say thank you. What you choose to do with your tank is up to you and you use the advice givin and how you choose to follow it, well, that is up to you. Also, Fishlore members would not give you bad advice, they would not be here if they didnt know what they are doin, right?

And yes we do all make mistakes! We also learn from them.

Fishlover423

That right, THANK YOU ALL!!!!
I use that smile alot. lol

jdhef

I think I was I was 12 once (but I'm not sure because it was so long ago), and at 12 one tends to take a difference of opinion as an insult. As you get older, you grow to realize that people are just stating what they learned through their own personal experiance. Just because someone disagrees with you, doesn't mean they think you are stupid, it just means they have had experiances that different than yours.

My father told me a story a long time ago about some executive that had an assistant that was always disagreeing with him. When asked why he didn't fire a guy who was always disagreeing with him he said, "If he agreed with me on everything, I wouldn't need his opinion."

So just smile and know that everyone is really just trying to help you the best way that they know how.

05G35COUPE

Tigar Barbs are not a great fish to keep. They tend to nip at each other and other fish. I had some, and brought them back less then a week latter.