dont rinse the gravel, just try to get as much of the waste out as you can with a gravel vacuum today, and then just put the gravel in, same with your plants and decor. take ALL of your filter media in your 10 gallon and put it in the 20's filter, you could run them both together, but I don't know how well the fish you have handle a very high amount of water disturbance. honestly, most of the gunk will probably stay in the 10 gallon when you remove the gravel, just use a fish net to take it out, that's what i do. but be sure to rinse the fish net after you use it!
your fish are cute
