Haha, endless 3 month cycle sounds familiar. Almost 4 months, and my 30g is still not quite there. But I would have lost many more fish than I have if it weren't for the advice of the people on this forum. They know what they're talking about, and they want to help you to make good decisions and enjoy your fish.
I understand your frustration, but asking questions when you know the answer already makes your task harder. It's not so hard to do a quick
water change every day, nor is it hard to add a water conditioner that detoxifies ammonia without starving bacteria (Prime and Stress Coat+ are both good). Your fish will hold up better if you follow these steps.