First hello & sorry for the long story but thought a bit of back round would help.
I think Ive finaly found the correct people to advise me..... its been a long road!!!

But maybe now I can get myself on the way to creating a beautiful under water world
My partner purchased a 190ltr JUWEL Aquarium, filter, pump & heater inc.
The shop that sold him it was very helpful and they filled me & him with confidence.
We started shopping around for deco etc... And now we are been told differnt things everywhere we go, however the chap that sold us the tank has turned very arogant and told me to listen to him and only him or he will not deal us in so many words.
We wants to keep Malawi fish, this is what my partner has been advised would be the best starter fish. As they are hardy, we can keep all Malawi fish and yet still get the effect with different colours etc...
We do know they can be agressive and need plenty of hide aways etc... We again have been advised by one shop to keep 15-20 fish (this I am comfortable with) another told us 40!!!!!!! That shocked me!
It was filled on Thursday 18th Nov 08
The tank: has a sand bottom, with 3 large coral rocks in the middle, creating great hidding places to eitherside, the back & a tunnell through the rocks. Also got some plastic plants.
1st We have been told to add the water & conditioner, leave it and take a sample into the shop in 2 weeks.
They have told me I have no need for a
test kit of my own just yet? Is this true?
2nd somone else said I should be doing weekly water changes upto 25%, should I be doing this?
3rd what is the best way and do I need to oxygnate the water? Silly question I know, but when I have asked in the shop they keep saying I have everything I need.
Somehow It hink not, as I dont have most the things on your starter list!
You are asking why I didnt find this out before right?
It was my partners new adventure and hopefully a life time hobbie. He had spoken to a few people before hand and when I came home with a list the size of my arm detailing what we needed he told me I was been over the top!
So I left him to it and now he's looking to me to put it right.....men haha
I'm looking for you good people to give me some solid advice and get me on my way to some great little fish
I think and please tell me if i'm wrong my plan of attack should be:
Get a test kit, new bucket, hose etc....
Hows best to clean the sand?
I keep reading it is important to clean your gravel and now I
I'm thinking we have done the wrong thing with sand?
What chemicles will I require? If any?
Do I need to add fish food?
I don't mind waiting and I'm not out to rush anything and get it wrong, I want happy healthy fish
Thanks in advance for any help
Kelly x x ';/