So i cleaned my tank today with dilluted bleach, and it worked very well..its all sparkly again..lol. I was already at petsmart today, so i bought some black gravel and reassembled my tank.
Shawnie, I kept the filter cartrige in a ziplock while i was cleaning it so dont worry..

At least now it will have time to get the bacteria in the new gravel, that way i can put it in a ziplock bag while transporting. I got a few new decorations today as well. I put 5 gallons from my 55g in there so it really shouldnt have to cycle at all. However, i will still test it for the next day or two.