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Old July 21st, 2008  
Fish Addict
 
It's my fault! Cyan died...

My female betta, Cyan died last night. I couldn't sleep because I felt it was my fault. I left her in the corner of the kitchen with some plants in a small 3g tank. I did feed her everyday but never attended to her like how I attended to my other pets. I don't think she could ever forgive me.

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Old July 21st, 2008  
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I'm sorry you lost Cyan.
Don't be too hard on yourself, she'll forgive you if you've learned something from her death.
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Old July 21st, 2008  
Fish Mentor
 
I'm sorry you lost your girl....Don't blame yourself....It was just her time to go is all......
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Old July 21st, 2008  
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I am so sorry to hear about Cyan. Don't be to hard on yourself. She would not want you to feel guilty.
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Old July 22nd, 2008  
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Thanks guys... I don't think I can ever keep another female betta. I'm afraid it'll just remind me of her which is painful.
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Old July 22nd, 2008  
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I'm sorry that you lost her. Bettas don't hold grudges and she'd not want you to feel like that.
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Old July 22nd, 2008  
Fish Mentor
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by peacemaker92 View Post
Thanks guys... I don't think I can ever keep another female betta. I'm afraid it'll just remind me of her which is painful.
When you're ready, I know there's a baby betta girl out there waiting for someone like you to bring her home and care for her.

Apply what you've learned, in this way you will be honoring Cyan's memory, I'm sure she'd be pleased.

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Old July 22nd, 2008  
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I'm not going to say "don't blame yourself" because I've been there (a betta I had died when the heater went too high for several days) and know that there's no point to saying that, but know that we all make mistakes. and our pets understand this (sometimes better than we do).
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Old July 22nd, 2008  
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Alright. Thanks so much! This means a lot to me.
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