Fish MemorialsTalk about the loss of your fish. These are our pets and we can become quite attached to them and hopefully this area can help with the passing of your pet fish.
I'm so sorry...two in such a short time. Rose, no one can doubt that you love your betta fish and look after them as best you can. It's sad, and I feel badly for you. Let us know if you need anything.
Rose I'm so sorry to hear that - I am just relieved to know that they had the best life in the world with you. Best wishes and big hugs from me and Marmaduke xxx
guess this is the board to post in
I have had him for nearly 4years. Autumn has allways been the coolest fish ever. He was allways scared of other fish, and put up the worst front I have ever seen from an animal. I got him at petsmart, and I chose him because he had so much spunk. He has had some ups and downs but he was a great fish and I will miss him.
I am so sorry to hear about Autumn. He was such a beautiful fish and I can tell by the way you spoke of him that you loved him. He will be missed by us all. Let us know if we can do anything for you. Believe me there are those of us who know what you feel right now and would love to help if you need it. Please do not give up and when the time is right if you feel you can do try another betta for you have been a wonderful Betta Mom and would do a wonderful thing by taking in another little buddy. Our hearts and sympathies go out to you.
Alright..... I think I may be strong enough to post this now, even though it's only been one day.
Dante was, in my eyes, my "soulmate with fins"..... he and I connected in a way that I never thought a human and fish could. He trusted me right from the start, coming to the front top of the aquarium whenever I approached, even when it wasn't feeding time. If I dipped my finger in the tank, he'd swim over and rub his little body against it, much like a cat.
He had his troubles, though. Several bouts with constipation, depression after I rid the tank of all the live-bearers, a harsh confrontation with a gold gourami...... but those memories aren't as strong as the ones of him swimming happily about in his huge "fishie mansion." My 20 gallon now sits nearly empty, robbed of it's little flame. Someday, perhaps I will get another Betta boy to put in there. But Dante will never be replaced in my heart and soul.
I really hate to be posting in here again, but it's a nice thing to do to remember our little friends.
Raspy had been sick for a couple weeks with a fungus and then some fin rot. I had tried some different medications, bought an airstone, and such. He appeared to be doing better tonight, more active than I've seen him in a long time.
Unfortunately, he just didn't make it. I came in from outside and he was on his side on the bottom of the tank.
Poor thing. At least he is no longer suffering. When he was sick for so long I had kind of prepared myself for it (as much as one can) but it still hurts.
Oh NO!! I am so sorry!! This is a terrible loss. I know how hard you fought to save him and it is so hard to think of him being gone. I am so sorry that your little guy is gone.
I do hope that you are okay although I know it is too soon for you to be able to tell much. Please do not blame yourself, I know you did everything you could and worked very hard to keep him with you. He would not want you to be sad and Lilex needs you so you must go on. I am so terribly sorry.
Thank you so much, Rose. You helped me fight for him and I do miss him but I am staying strong for Lilex and my two little wonderful Otos. Lilex has kept me laughing all night as he practically wraps himself around his airstone. I guess he likes the bubbles.
It is a hard loss, but I am just glad he is no longer suffering.
I just lost Morpho (one of my 2 female bettas) after only having her for 3 months. She was full of life and color when I brought her home and always seemed to be the more vigorous of the two. She used up a lot of her life force swimming around like crazy, I guess. I wish I knew what caused her to get sick and die, but I guess I just have to try harder to take good care of Blanca and the next betta we get. It is still so very ironic to me that my very 1st betta who lived in a vase had the longest life of all...the more I learn and try to do, the worse the outcome seems to be for my poor bettas. Anyway, God bless little Morpho. I'm glad she's at peace now.
I am so sorry for your loss. I do feel for you and know how you feel. I too have lost little ones and wondered why. You need to go on with taking care of little Blanca and the Otos and I am glad to hear that you intend to get another Betta.
Morpho would not want you to grieve, even though I know it is hard not to be sad. She would be glad you are planning to honor her memory by getting another little one to give a good home to. There really is no stronger compliment to a betta than to get another. It shows that the bond was strong enough that you really desire another, not to take their place but to carry on where they left you.
You have my deepest sympathies and if there is anything I can do please let me know.
miawyatt,
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I agree with Rose about getting another little one. It would be good for you and Blanca both. One thing you might want to do before you introduce your new little girl is rearrange the tank. Move the plants around, reposition any decorations you might have. This will make Blanca think she is in a new tank, and she won't be as territorial and so will accept the new fish more easily.
Just a thought.....
I'm so sorry to hear about Morpho. You did what you could for her and tried your best. Sometimes it doesn't feel like (believe me, I know) but you did. You were always looking for more answers.
Any betta that you bring home will be lucky to have you as their mommy!
This is just the saddest board to read but in another light it's really great to see all the encouragment and care that people give to such a sensitive subject...i think it brings out the good side in everyone... you show that you all truly care and are good people ..
This is a Board modeled after another that I had seen on another forum. It is meant to comfort those who lost the best friend in their tanks. Bettas are so "human" in their reactions to their owners and it is so hard to lose someone that is so very loving and trusting of us. I have been so gratified that the members of the Betta board and others have done such a great job making those who have suffered a great loss feel that they are not alone.
Jasmyn ~ Rest in Peace, Little One ~ I Love You ~ We Will Miss You
You fought so hard to live and now it is time to lay down and rest. So quit now darling and go to be with your brothers. Your brothers and sisters and I will miss you very much. Good night, my dear.
I am so sorry for your loss of Jasmyn. She certainly fought hard and I know that you fought for her too. She couldn't have asked for a better person to be on her side through her troubles.
I will miss her too! Please let me know if I can do anything for you!!
Rest in Peace, little Satin. You will be missed I am sure. You were such a good companion and were loved very much. It is sad that you have left us, but we will remember you fondly.
I am so very sorry that you have lost your friend. It is a very sad, sad day. I am sorry not to have gotten back to you sooner but I have not been able to access the forum. You have my deepest sympathies and if I can do anything to help please let me know.
Rest In Peace, My Little Lady. Rest In Peace, Sara.
You were such a dainty little girl and never asked for much. Such a beautiful disposition and manner you had. It was almost hard to believe that you bore the name of a fighting fish. You had a hard time the last few weeks and now the fight for your rest is over. I am so sorry you are not with us longer but I am glad that you are not suffering.
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