I would not get any more fish as you are over stocked now. If you figure very conservatively at 1
inch per gallon of water. The Mass of the fish at adulthood has to be considered also.
amount of fish x adult size = gallons of water
2 Balas x12 inches=24 inches =24 gallons of water
and you are over stocked right there without counting the other fish.
How long has the tank been set up? sounds like it's not cycled yet. Have you had a chance to look at the articles I posted the link for?
As for the filter sponges, most of us don't change the filter sponges just rinse them out in used tank water and put them back. these sponges can last for several years. the copmany who makes them tells you to chaange them because this is how they make money.
Hope this helps.
Carol