Eheim makes a thing called a "Sludge extractor".
http://www.marinedepot.com/ps_ViewIt...d~vendor~.html Mine lasted for awhile but the housing mysteriously cracked and water got in to the batteries. I didn't pay full price for it either. Marina makes a really lousy battery powered gravel washer.
http://www.marinedepot.com/ps_ViewIt...d~vendor~.html Don't go there it's no good. I believe the Marineland magnum caniters have the option to attach a gravel washer to the filter. Once I get a few more things in order I'm going to hook up a gravel washer to a Rena Filstar canister. It's being used as a filter right now. Eventually I'll just take off the intake and switch it for a washer tube. There is another plugin type recycling gravel washer. I don't remember the name right now but it's about 200 bucks. If my Filstar experiment fails, I plan to try one of those. Oh I found it. Here's a link.
http://www.drsfostersmith.com/Produc...&N=2004+113164
That one looks to be the best. I too have been on a quest for the same kind of thing. I like being able to do an extra gravel clean, especially on the tank with an under gravel filter, with out having to refill the tank. It's even better for maintaining my reef sand. I can clean it up with out having to spend ALOT of time making water.