Hi Allie / Stevenangela1 and Slug:
Allie - thank you for the link. The final paragraph in the link had me in stitches because I ended up with a Melachromis Auratus who I nicknamed "Killer". He killed everything in my tank and he was living the life of riley in a 45G tank by himslef and a 12"Pleco. I've had this tank for a while. However, like many of the articles state, when I first set it up (many years ago) I was influenced by colors / stripes, etc. As a matter of fact, the Auratus male and females were the cutest cichlid with those yellow stripes going through their bodies horizontally. But looking back, the male had a really mean, mean look in his eye and was defiant even when we approached the tank. Not a lovable fish.
A couple of weeks ago, I found a really good
LFS - actually, one of the LFS staff member who helped me is a Fishlore enthusiast and he agreed to take Killer in exchange for new cichlids. He is "really" good and I trust his recommendations - they are spot on when I read up on the cichlids he's recommended. However, the cynatalapia afra that was rubbing his body over the rocks was exhibiting really aggressive behavior against an albino scolofi - he would turn his body almost with a snap, like someone said - giving his finger to the guys in the tank.
I brought him back to the LFS and traded him in for a Copadichromis Borleyi. The tank is tranquil and peaceful once again. My hubby wanted to flush "killer 2" but was happy that we were able to switch the fish!
Steveangela1 - did the yellow lab mate with the kenyi female? I'm waiting for yellow labs to come into my LFS and hope to introduce 1 male / 3 females. Do your fish settle down and stop fighting? Does your stomach tighten up when you see that aggression. So, you change the tank when that happens? I have to tell you I used to want to put my hand in the tank and smack the **** out of the Auratus! Talk about who's the bully - lol
Thank you guys for your input. I'm gonna go and download information on mating yellow labs. I loved seeing the frys being born and hope to see it again!