I think they're like grumpy old men

But in their defence they apparently make extremely good daddies!! "The male can be so protective he will take the fry into his mouth for protection" (Siamese Cyber aquarium)
They are pretty solitary animals in their natural state in padi fields in Thailand. They originally lived in small muddy ditches and lived on the insects and worms ploughed up by the rice harvesters. They were not originally as pretty as they are now. They've been bred to be colourful and have various styles of long flowing fins. I have read that the reason they're so aggressive is because the long flowing tail is their mating display to attract females so any other males with long flowing fins (even guppies!) are seen as competition.
The other reason they have this aggressive streak is because they were bred to fight as a sport in Siam before becoming ornamental pets. Read this paragraph from
http://www.versaquatics.com/bettas.htm
"Native to Thailand, these fish have been successfully bred, and reared in the aquarium since the mid 1800's, and also used in sporting bouts since that time. Bettas are notorious for fighting to the death if kept together, and unfortunately,
have been exploited for these purposes. Early breeding of the fish focused on the pugnacious temperament and beautiful coloration of the species; the ingredients for a nasty fish fight. So, the modern-day Betta has had over a century of
selective breeding to bring out the best and worst of these incredible freshwater fishes."
The breeding and fighting sport still goes on.. have a look at this page.
http://www.plakatthai.com/ It shows how to breed them, what to look for in a good fighter etc etc. Pretty cruel in my eyes but it is actually very informative and they man writes with a rather intruiging manner so I had to read the whole thing!