Thanks Mike & Cherry Rose.
Ya know, I am feeling so muddled and stupid for being on this forum All the time!
Neptune looks pretty frisky this morning - I left the tank overnight with the carbon filter. I am thinking I might just leave him and watch carefully - and just pray that this tank cycles soon - (which I doubt it will

)- it has been a month with him in it. If by later today/tonight/tomorrow I see no further deterioration but am still getting weak ammonia tests, I will continue to do the 25% water changes.
If his fins seem raggedy again tomorrow, I will follow the instructions you gave. ( thanks to both of you for spelling them out as you did - I am too muddled to figure that out - I will print it off) . Duh
I am so thankful for your help - I don't mean to hog this forum - and I really am a reasonable, sane person - I just feel so overwhelmed; frustrated; guilty and confused with all the conflicting and differing information out there.
I am practically a pro when it comes to medicating/treating/ my 4 cats . How can this one little fish & aquarium have sent me over the edge?!
Is Dr. Phil in the house?
Val
