Well I gave this some more thought and decided I must have had a bit of a brain spaz...I just got the tank over a major disaster, and now I want to potentially overstock it? That might be ok...or not. I'd rather not take a chance on the 'not'.
Right now I think the DG, six barbs and four otos might even be overstocked. I may do that, or 8 barbs and no otos.
The main reason for the otos (other than that I now think they're cute as heck) is that 2 wks ago or so I was returning something at petsmart and saw some otos in a tank with some guppies. None of them looked too good - one guppy had a really weird looking mouth - well that's bc his lips were rotted off. All the otos were hiding in a corner. I felt so sorry for the little guys. I bought 3 and yelled at myself all the way home - I had just lost a
betta bought from that same store, there were sick fish in the tank and all I had to put them in at home was a (recently sterilized) 3g. Yes I am crazy. One oto was dead the next morning, another four days later. The last one seems like he's going to make it, but being a lone oto in a 3g is very less than ideal I know. He sits on a leaf all day and sucks on his zucchini at night. I thought to get some more, QT them all together and then add them to the 20g, or I may ask the store I got my cherry's from (different store! lots of healthy fish!) if they'll take him in.
I'm not buying any more stock from petsmart or petland. I found a new
LFS (small, privately run) that's short on looks - old carpet on the floor, leaky ceiling - but an amazing variety of fish, with no visible evidence of disease and NO dead fish in the tanks (first time I've seen that since I started this hobby). They told me they QT all new stock for 14 days before they go up for sale. Their otos were schooling together around their tank and swam right up to look at me, rather than hiding in a corner. My new cherrys swim up to say hi too, while the last ones I had (from petland) always stayed in the plants. And this new store's bettas were in 1/2 gallon fish bowls - not quite 5g/heated/filtered but still an improvement over filthy dixie cups.
Ok I'm done now. Thanks everyone for the feedback - I find that even after learning lots I still want to know what others think and what they've tried/had success with.