Hi eepruls..
I was not aware of your earlier readings on ammonia. That makes a big difference knowing that, thanks.
Well.. it really sounds like you should have had nitrAtes showing up by now. That is strange..
Other than the missing nitrAtes.. it sounds like your tank was/is successfully going through the cycle. You had the spike on ammonia... the nitrIte spike as well... but no nitrAte yet. Well... IMO I think that your nitrates are right around the corner.. and you should be cycled soon!
I cycled my 55g fishless and it took me about 23 days or so.. Id have to look in the books to be sure. BUT I had a filter sponge that I added from another tank.
Hang in there! YOU will soon have fish for your tank! I know how you feel.. I was staring at the 55 with the bubble wand going.. decorations.. lights on lol.. and no fish for awhile too!

~ kate