Hate to tell you this, but you have very very very hard water. I had mine tested, and it was so far off the chart, they didnt recommend even putting ciclids in it!! I didnt believe it at first, but I have talked to the local water department, Seachem Labs, and the county extention office and they all agree, that even though it might not behave like 'hard water scale" it is for sure what it is. I have been told to use
RO water, water softner pillow, or softened water. If I dont, it will just get worse the more water changes I do. Seems that the evaporation concentrates the minerals in the tank, and as I add more water I add more minerals. Over time the levels of minerals get more and more concentrated. I have stripped my tank again, removed the substrate, and am going to begin doing water changes with the softened water. I didnt want to use RO water becuase of all the other "additives" you have to use to make sure the fish have the stuff they need so to speak.
I can see a light at the end of the tunnel, I hope I can make it there before the bulb burns out! Good luck to you.