I feel like the neverending newbie. I now have 18 fish I cannot house together comfortably in less than three tanks. I have a husband who has declared his undying love for the fish we've had for a whopping 48 hours and who refuses to give up any of them. In the meantime, my original two fish (and reason for buying the big tank) are still suffering in quarters too small.
The really sad part is that I did not choose ANY of these fish! I have not yet had the pleasure and anxiety of picking that perfect little guy from the LFS and transporting him carefully in his bag to his new home. I had a dream of a beautiful tank full of mbuna and Texas holey rock with a sand substrate... Maybe a couple of live plants for them to destroy (why not? You should see what we let the dogs do to the yard)... Now I have two little killers in a 29 gallon divided and what can only be described as a grab bag of finny pigs in the 110.
Sorry for the venting. I am bummed.
